For unixODBC, use ODBC version as defined by it (as of v2.2.14 it is 3.5).
This allows us to use newer features like SQL_DESC_OCTET_LENGTH (which
returns the number of bytes required to store the data). This fixes the issue
in #60616. If the newer version is not available, over-allocate to accomodate
4-byte Unicode characters for CHAR and VARCHAR datatypes (and their Wide
counterparts).
version.
Fixed a couple of failing tests.